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Q:我刚刚大学毕业,在一家广告公司工作。说实在的,工作环境还可以,但就是人际关系不好处,尤其最近许多事令我心烦。比如说同事亚茹吧,她是和我同时进公司的,刚开始的时候,我们的关系还可以,都是新来的,彼此很客气,等一个月以后她就原形毕露了。工作中总是用贬低我来抬高她自己,不但挑我的错,还老为我设置障碍。在她的干扰下,我的工作很难开展。我是负责市场的,她不但刁难我的客户,还常在经理面前说我的坏话,有时真是无中生有,好事都是她干的,得罪人的活都赖给了我,为此我感到非常气愤。还有公司规定员工的工资是保密的,但她老是打听我的工资是如何定的,因为我的学历比她高,工资可能比她多点,所以我没有告诉她。为此,她也感到不满意,好像我又得罪了她。我这个人其实还是比较能宽容人的,遇事也常常忍让。而她呢,把我的宽容和忍让视为我的无能,难道拿她这种人真的没办法了吗?我该如何与这种人相处,或是一走了之?很想听听雨露和专家的指点。
Q: I just graduated from college and worked in an advertising agency. To be honest, the working environment is OK. However, it is that interpersonal relations are not good and I am upset by so many things recently. For example, my colleague Yaru, she and I into the company at the same time, the beginning, our relationship is OK, are new, very polite to each other, and so a month later she was revealed. I always use derogatory work to elevate myself, not only to pick my fault, but also old set obstacles for me. In her interference, my work is difficult to carry out. I am responsible for the market, she not only create difficulties for my clients, but also often in front of managers say my bad words, and sometimes really out of nothing, good things are her dry, offended people’s live on me, for which I am very angry . There are companies that require employees to keep their wages as confidential, but she always asks how my salary is set because my education is higher than her and wages may be higher than her, so I did not tell her. To this end, she also felt unsatisfied, as if I had offended her again. In fact, I am still quite tolerant of people, often fail to tolerate things. And she, my tolerance and tolerance as my incompetence, do not really get her way to such a person? How do I get along with this person, or go away? Would love to hear the rain And expert advice.