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自卑心理在中学女生身上不难发现,部分人的自卑心理还比较严重。患有自卑心理的女生往往是自我认识不足,觉得自己的智力、记忆、判断力、气质、性格及技能等方面不如别人。由于中学女生情绪的不稳定性明显强于男生,抑郁、恐惧和自尊心的降低也大于男生,因而患有自卑心理的人数比男生多。这些学生的思维活动受到抑制,影响了学习成绩的提高,其结果进一步加重了消极自卑,如不加以克服,势必导致极端行为。“到了高中,我的心态更加消极,我失去了自信和自尊,变得很自卑。我曾想用恋爱来克服自己的痛苦,甚至想就此结束我的生命。”这是一位刚跨入校门的女大学生辛酸自白。据不久前一项调查,在刚入校一个月的百名新生50％以上的学生过去常有“苦闷”、“孤独之感”。19％的学生自卑、信心不足,对前途茫然。这100新生里,女生竟占总数四分之三。由此看来,加强中学生,尤其是中学女生的心理教育,帮助她们提高认识,克服自卑心理显得十分重要。 其一,对中学女生来说,满足自尊,肯定自我至关
Inferiority in the secondary school girls who is not difficult to find that some people’s inferiority complex is still more serious. Female students with inferiority often tend to lack of self-awareness, feel their intelligence, memory, judgment, temperament, personality and skills than others. Because the emotional instability of girls in secondary schools is significantly stronger than that of boys, depression, fear and self-esteem are also lower than those of boys. As a result, more students have inferiority disorders than boys. These students’ thinking activities are suppressed, affecting the improvement of academic performance, the result further aggravates the negative inferiority, if not overcome, is bound to lead to extreme behavior. “In high school, my mentality is more negative, I lost confidence and self-esteem, become very inferior .I had wanted to love to overcome their pain, and even wanted to end my life.” This is a just entering the school gate Female college student bitterly confession. According to a recent survey, more than 50% of freshmen in the first month of school had used to have “depressed” and “lonely feelings” in the past. 19% of students have inferiority, lack of confidence and are dazed at the future. Of the 100 new students, girls make up three-quarters of the total. From this, it is very important to strengthen the psychological education of middle school students, especially girls in secondary schools, to help them to raise their awareness and overcome the inferiority complex. First, for high school girls, self-esteem, self-determination is certain