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儿子常喜欢和我“谈谈”。夏日的傍晚,我们早早地吃完饭,边散步边“谈”,这是我们一天中最愉快的时刻。冬天,外面太冷,就围坐在厨房桌子前谈。记得有一天晚饭后,我照例拉着他的手,在斯德哥尔摩学生公寓旁的森林小路上散步。那是我们第一次正式的谈话。孩子说: “爸爸,我们谈谈吧!”“谈什么呢?”我问道。“嗯……,假如把你的头换成别的动物的头,你愿意换什么动物?”“那你愿意换什么动物?”我反问他。他毫不犹豫地说:“老鹰。”于是,为什么是老鹰?换别的动物行不行?老鹰究竟有什么特点?我们一路谈下去,谈得很兴奋,真是心
My son often likes to talk to me. On the evening of summer, we had an early meal and walked “talking” while walking. This was the happiest moment of our day. In winter, when it’s too cold outside, sit around in front of the kitchen table. I remember one day after dinner, I took his hand as usual, walking in the forest trail next to the Stockholm apartment. That’s our first formal conversation. The child said: “Dad, let’s talk about it!” “What to talk about?” I asked. “Hm ... if you change your head to the head of another animal, what kind of animal are you willing to change?” “What animal would you change?” I asked him. He did not hesitate to say: “The eagle.” So, why is the eagle? For another animal okay? Hawks what exactly? We talk all the way, talk very excited, really heart