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余52岁始得一子,岂有不爱之理!然爱之必以其道,虽嬉戏玩耍,务令忠厚悱恻,毋为刻急也。……我不在家,儿子便是你管束。要须长其忠厚之情,驱其残忍之性,不得以为犹子而姑纵惜也。家人儿女,总是天地间一般人,当一般爱惜,不可使吾儿凌虐他。凡鱼飨果饼,宜均分散给,大家欢嬉跳跃。若吾儿坐食好物,令家人子远离而望,不得一沾齿唇;其父母见而怜之,无可奈何,呼之使去,岂非割心剜肉乎!夫读书中举中进士作官,
When I was 52, I started to have a son, how can I not love it? However, if I love it, I will not be impatient even though I am playful and playful. ... I am not at home, my son is your control. To be long and loyal, drive the cruelty of nature, do not think it is blind and pray. Children and their families, who are always common people in the world, should not abuse their children when they generally care. Where 鱼 飨 fruit cakes, should be distributed to all, everyone hoping to jump. If my children eat good things, so that their children away from looking down, not a tooth lips; see and pity their parents, helpless, call to go, do not cut their heart and meat! Husband cited Jinshi official reading,