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沈阳市辽海出版社工作的乐乐妈来信反映:女儿周考英语得了98分,原因是写错了一个单词。问她写错的缘故,她抱怨说:“考前老师根本没说要考动词过去式,所以我们谁也没复习,全军覆没也不怪我们。”女儿的话似乎有道理,既然老师没安排这样的复习,那大家都没考好就不是学生自己的事,由此,也可以为自己没有得满分推脱掉责任。那么,这个责任究竟该由谁承担呢?由此联想到,女儿近期各科作业和考试所有错题的原因,几乎都是在不该错的细节上犯了马虎的错误。如果她对自己负责任,写完后再读一遍,就不难发现错误,也就不会与满分失之交臂。但是,尽管我数次告诉女儿这个毛病要改,可女儿仍未改正,仍喜欢把责任推给别人。我该怎样让孩子学会对自己负责?
LOHAS Press, Shenyang Liaohai Publishing House, wrote a letter: The daughter scored 98 points in English because she wrote the wrong word. Asked her wrong, she complained: “The exam teacher did not say the verb past tense, so no one did not review us and the whole army did not blame us.” "My daughter’s words seem reasonable, since the teacher No arrangements for such a review, that we did not test the student’s own thing is not, therefore, can not get rid of their own responsibility. So, who should bear this responsibility? From this we can see that the reason why all the recent mistakes in all the homework and examinations of my daughter are caused by the mistakes are almost always made in such detail as not to be mistaken. If she is responsible for himself, after reading it, it is not hard to find mistakes, and it will not be overrated. However, although I told my daughter several times to correct this problem, my daughter still did not correct her, and I still like to push responsibility to others. How can I let children learn to be responsible for themselves?