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在竞争激烈的现代社会,人与人间的孰优孰劣有时不仅影响着人际间交往,而且影响着个人生活状态。尤其是同辈人的竞争,因为起点相似而结果迥然,更易导致不良心理。比如相近年龄,相同城市,别人已住上了宽敞明亮的三居两厅住宅,生活条件优越,而你还在租来的简陋房内恋爱结婚;再比如,你还在内地为有限的薪水听命于老板,而你的朋友却已在沿海自己做了老板指挥于人。这些现实从心理上来说便会引发种种不适应证。如一起毕业的同班同学,五年后,一位事业有成,另位则工作平平,工作
In a highly competitive modern society, one of the best of the best and the worst of others sometimes affects not only the interpersonal interactions but also the personal life. Especially the competition among peers, because the starting point is similar and the results are ugly, more easily lead to bad psychology. For example, the same age, the same city, others have lived in bright and spacious living quarters, superior living conditions, and you are still rented simple houses love marriage; for example, you are still in the Mainland for a limited salary to take orders The boss, and your friend has been in the coastal own boss to command people. These realities can cause various kinds of psychological symptoms. As a classmate with graduation, five years later, one career success, and the other is working mediocre, work