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如果我们认识到别人是会成长、变化的,那么我们就会容忍别人的变化,并且容忍我们与他们之间关系的改变。障碍1:先入为主先入为主是我们经验主义的产物。事先假定我们相亲相爱的人在某种情况下会有什么反应,然后在这种假定的基础上自己再采取相应的行动,是一种很省事的方法。你是否对某人说过这样的话“我没告诉你是怕你知道后会烦心”?结果你会惊讶地发现正因为你的这番好意并经常这样做,
If we recognize that others will grow and change, then we will tolerate the changes of others and tolerate the change of relationship between us and them. Barrier 1: Preconceived Animism is the product of our empiricism. It is a very easy way to assume in advance, under certain circumstances, what our dear ones will react to, and then take corresponding action on the basis of this assumption. Did you say such a thing to someone? “I did not tell you that I was afraid that you would worry later.” Results You will be surprised to find out precisely because of your kindness and often doing so,