小故事 大道理

• 作 者: 杨春海
• 机 构: 河南淇县第一中学
• 出 处: 班主任之友
• 发表日期: 2005年01期
• 关键词: 不战而屈人之兵 道德说教 布勃卡 同学关系 改变自己 不如意 作文本 一杯水 下地狱 鼓足勇气

学生有思想有感情。教育他们若不讲策略,只是面部僵硬、滔滔不绝地进行道德说教,恐怕不仅不能对症下药,反会引发逆反心理。较好的办法是避开正面交锋,借用恰切的故事使学生心悦诚服。正所谓“不战而屈人之兵”,苦口良药也显奇效。老农移石许多学生有学习、办事拖拉的毛病,事实上这并不是性格使然,往往只是习惯而己。于是借班会之机我讲了个故事: 一位老农的地里,多年来横卧着

Students have thoughts and feelings. To educate them if they do not talk about strategy, but only face rigid, continuous moral moral education, I am afraid not only can not remedy the disease, it will lead to rebellious psychology. The better way is to avoid confrontation and borrow the exact story to make the student convinced. As the saying goes, “The soldiers who did not fight and behave unopposedly,” the bitter taste of good medicine is also remarkable. Many of the old farmer’s gravestones have problems in learning and doing things. In fact, this is not due to personality. It is often just a habit. So I told a story about the opportunity of a class meeting: In the land of an old farmer, he has been lying for years.