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有一个丰富多彩的人际关系是每一个人的需要。可是,很多人的这个需要都没有得到满足。他们总是慨叹世界上缺少真情,缺少爱,那种强烈的孤独感困扰着他们。其实,很多人之所以缺少朋友,仅仅是因为他们在人际交往中总是采取消极的、被动的退缩方式,总是期待友谊从天而降。这样,他们虽然生活在一个人来人往的世界里,却仍然无法摆脱心灵上的孤寂。这些人,只做交往的响应者,不做交往的主动者。要知道,别人是没有理由无缘无故对我们感兴趣的。因此,如果想赢得别人,与别人建立良好的人际关系,摆脱孤独的折磨,就必须主动交往。
There is a rich and colorful human relationship that is everyone’s needs. However, many people’s needs have not been met. They always lamented the lack of truth in the world, lack of love, and the kind of strong loneliness that bothered them. In fact, the reason why many people lack friends is simply because they always adopt negative and passive ways of retreat in their interpersonal relationships. They always expect friendships to fall from the sky. In this way, although they live in a world where people come and go, they still cannot escape the loneliness of the soul. These people only act as responders to the communication and do not act as communicators. We must know that there is no reason for others to be interested in us for no reason at all. Therefore, if you want to win others, establish good relationships with others, and get rid of the pain of loneliness, you must take the initiative.