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中国人一向以读书为荣,以面子最为重要。“书中自有黄金屋”,“金榜题名时”……宣扬了读书的功利,可以做官,可以发财,衣锦还乡时更可光宗耀祖。现在虽然时代不同了,但在孩子过重学习负担的背后,仍或多或少有这种旧时的意识作祟。父母把自己的种种遗憾全部化成了培养孩子的原动力。可以毫不夸张地说,孩子的成长道路早在出生前就已被父母设计好了,从胎教开始,婴幼儿时期进行早期智力开发,以后则重点培养,学习成绩要优秀,考上名牌大学,然后找个体面的工作,最好还能出国等等。
Chinese people have always been proud of their studies and their face is the most important. “The book own gold house”, “gold list title” ... ... to promote the utilitarian books, you can do the official, you can make a fortune, homecoming even more light Zong Yaozu. Although the times are different now, the old-fashioned consciousness is still more or less behind the children’s excessive learning burden. Parents put all their own regret into the cultivation of children’s motivation. It is no exaggeration to say that children’s growth path was designed by their parents as early as before their birth. Starting from prenatal education, early childhood development was carried out in infants and early childhood. After that, the focus was on their cultivation and their academic performance should be excellent. And then find a decent job, it is best to go abroad and so on.