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(一) 面对中学生早恋怎么办?不少家长采取堵的办法,跟踪、偷看孩子的日记,甚至干脆训斥、呵斥、打骂、关禁闭。教师呢?也积极配合家长“打、防结合”。事实上,这些硬性“堵”的措施,对于处在青春期有逆反心理的孩子不仅没有作用,反而促使其走上极端。最近,我的朋友某中学的张老师就遇到这样的问题:有少数学生谈恋爱,甚至有学生问悄悄地谈恋爱碍不碍事?张老师为此提问学生这样的问题:是成熟甘甜的红石榴好吃,还是又苦又涩的青石榴好吃呢?并在班上提出来讨论,当然不会提及某人的名字。张老师最后说,将来学成事业有成之后,我倒乐意为你们牵线搭桥,不过现在不行。此后,该班学生再也不见“小情侣”的影子。
(A) In the face of secondary school puppy love how to do? Many parents take the blocking method, tracking, peeping child’s diary, and even simply reprimand, scolding, beating, closing confinement. Teachers? Also actively cooperate with parents, “fight, anti-combination.” In fact, these rigid “blocking” measures not only have no effect on children who are mentally retarded during their adolescence, but instead push them to the extreme. Recently, my friend, a high school teacher Zhang encountered such a problem: a few students fall in love, and even some students ask quietly love is not obstructed things? Zhang asked students to ask such questions: is a mature sweet red Pomegranate delicious, or bitter and astringent pomegranate delicious? And in the class proposed to discuss, of course, does not refer to someone’s name. Finally, Teacher Zhang said that in the future, after successful careers, I’d be happy to match up with you, but I can not do it now. Since then, the class students never see “little lover ” shadow.