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很多父母抱怨孩子不听话,把大人的话当作耳边风,完全不予理会,认为要让孩子服从指示只能大吼大叫或动用武力。这样的父母首先要检查自己对孩子讲话是不是说到做到,是不是不能做到的就不说。有了这两点,孩子才会把你的话真当回事。父母可以这样对孩子谈话: ①用词简单。不要用孩子不懂的词,讲话简洁明了,不要一次说得太多。小孩子能够记住简单的奖惩规则,却难得记住一堆大道理。你可以让孩子在两个明确的要
Many parents complain about children disobedient, the adults as the ear wind, completely ignored, that children should obey the instructions can only yell or use force. Such parents must first check whether they speak to their children, whether they can not do it or not. With these two points, your child will take your word seriously. Parents can talk to their children this way: ① wording simple. Do not use the words children do not understand, concise speech, do not say too much at once. Children can remember the simple rules of reward and punishment, but rare to remember a bunch of big truths. You can have children in two clear to want