婚姻中的冲突

• 作 者: 坎默耶 韩晓燕
• 出 处: 现代外国哲学社会科学文摘
• 发表日期: 1990年02期
• 关键词: 已婚夫妇 婚姻关系 冲突理论 利害冲突 酝酿阶段 囚犯们 研究著作 戈特曼 不言而谕 人说

有些已婚夫妇对冲突已习以为常,他们的婚姻关系被称为习惯于冲突的婚姻关系,事实上或多或少是围绕着不断的口角、争吵和打架建立起来的。但是,这类夫妇仅能代表所有已婚夫妇的一少部分,所以,我们在研究冲突问题时,不必把注意力过多地放在他们身上。下面我们会看到,在普通的、“正常的”、“恩爱的”夫妇中,冲突也会发生。

Some married couples have become accustomed to conflicts. Their marital relations are called marital relations accustomed to conflict. In fact, they are more or less centered around repeated quarrels, quarrels and fights. However, such couples represent only a small part of all married couples, so we do not have to focus too much on them when studying the issue of conflict. As we shall see below, conflicts can occur among ordinary, “normal”, “beloved” couples.