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老家今年春节,49岁的我和87岁的老母亲有生以来第一次没有在故乡过年。去年冬天冷,在兖州工作的大哥将母亲接去,临近年关,尽管母亲唠叨着要回老家过年,但终究经不住我们的劝说,加之上了年纪的人自己无法回,只得顺从了我们。事后想来,是我们把母亲“绑架”了,因为按照一个农村老太太的习惯,儿女们只有都陪她在老家过年才算是真正的过年。母亲不在老家,我和妻儿似乎找到了不回故乡过年的理由。其实,内心也有些矛盾,因为那里毕竟是生我养我的故土,母亲虽不在老家,但还有弟弟、姐姐及其他亲戚,村外我家的承包地里还长眠着我的父亲,我不回去他们会寂寞吗?
Home for the Spring Festival this year, 49-year-old me and my 87-year-old mother for the first time in their lives did not get home for the New Year. Last winter, the coldest brother who worked in Yanzhou picked her mother up and approached the year. Although her mother nagged her home for the Chinese New Year, she could not endure our persuasion after all. However, the older people themselves could not return and had to obey us. After hindsight, we “kidnapped” my mother because, according to the custom of a rural lady, children are the only true New Year when she is with her in her hometown. Mother is not at home, my wife and children seem to find a reason not to return to their hometown of the New Year. In fact, there are some contradictions in my heart because, after all, there is a place where I keep my native land. Although my mother is not in her hometown, my brother, sister and other relatives still live outside my village and my father lives in the contracted area. I will not go back Will they be lonely?