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既要告诉孩子如何防性侵,同时不要把孩子培养成贞洁烈妇(夫),更不要教他们以死抗争。现在几乎每天都有关于“性侵”的新闻,有些家长跟我说,看了很气愤,也很担心自己的孩子,于是想给孩子做一些“防性侵教育”。我认为,关于“防性侵”的教育可以做,但不能只讲侵害,还应该让孩子知道:第一,互相尊重相爱的人之间的性的美好。如果对孩子只讲性伤害,不讲性本身是美好的,便可能培养他们关于性的羞耻感、罪恶感,你想想禁果的可怕
It is necessary to tell children how to prevent sexual assault, while not cultivating children into virginity (husband), not to teach them to fight deadly. Almost every day, news about “sex abuse” was reported. Some parents told me that they were very angry and worried about their children. So they wanted to give their children some protection against sexual abuse. In my opinion, education on “anti-invasion” can be done, but can not be infringed on. It should also let the children know: First, to respect each other’s sexual beauty among their loved ones. If you talk about sexual harm to your children and not speaking is good in itself, you may develop a sense of shame and guilt about sex and fear of the forbidden fruit