“父母”是一种特殊职业

• 作 者: 李娜
• 出 处: 琴童
• 发表日期: 2014年02期
• 关键词: 试用期 以老带新 在你 给我 会做 家庭教育 章法 途中 这份 想着

生活中,为了职业的发展,每个人可能会做长期的准备——从漫长的实习期再到试用期,途中以老带新,一步一个脚印,虽然辛苦,却还有章法可以遵循。然而有一种职业,不但没有岗前培训,也没有现成的例子可以照搬,更没有所谓的经验可以参考(因为这份工作通常是在你毫无准备的情况下突然降临),多数是两眼一抹黑,按照自己的心性“随心所欲”。这种特殊的职业就是——父母。工作可以重来,但孩子的成长只有一次,并且不可逆转。因此,对于“父母”这个特殊职业来说,在教育孩子的过程中,不仅要有爱,也要有智慧;不仅需要摸索,也需要学习和培养。当我的孩子降临,给我带来无尽惊喜的同时,随之而来的也是无尽

In life, for career development, everyone may make long-term preparations - from a long internship to a probationary period, on the way to new and old, step by step, though hard, but there are rules to follow. However, there is a career that not only has no pre-service training nor ready-made examples to be copied, nor does it have any reference to the so-called experience (because the work usually comes suddenly without your preparation) Discredit, in accordance with their own heart “arbitrary” . This special occupation is - parents. Work can be repeated, but children grow only once and are irreversible. Therefore, for the special career of “Parents ”, not only love, but also wisdom should be involved in educating children; not only groping but also learning and training are needed. When my children come, bring me endless surprises at the same time, followed is endless