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看过“实话实说”节目的父母一定记得“少年迷恋网吧”话题中的那个男孩:不爱学习,不愿多与妈妈交流,整天泡在网吧里,在网络游戏中体验暂时的乐趣,觉得过瘾而迷惘。这不能不说明孩子精神的空虚。家长不妨扪心自问:你真的尝试着与孩子很好地沟通过吗?你真的会教育你的孩子吗?你了解你的孩子吗? 有些父母只是简单地说教:你这样做不好,你别这样,你想想妈妈多不容易……诸如此类的话,想想,比较任性的孩子能听得进去吗?说多了他们只会嫌你唠叨,容易引起他们的逆反心理。孔老夫子也早有因材施教之说,每个孩子都有自己独特的性格,不同的思维方式。因此,在
Parents who read the “tell the truth” show must remember the boy in the topic of “Teenage’s Infatuated with Internet Café”: They do not like to learn and do not want to talk to their mom more. They are immersed in cybercafe all day and experience temporary joys in online games. Enjoyable and confused. This can not but explain the child’s emptiness. Parents may wish to ask yourself: Are you really trying to communicate well with your child? Do you really educate your children? Do you know your children? Some parents simply say: you do not do well, you do not , Think about your mother is not easy ... ... and so on, think about, more self-willed children can hear it? Say they will only nauseating you, easily aroused their rebellious. Old Confucius Confucius also taught early, each child has its own unique personality, different ways of thinking. Thus, in