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“小宝,不准在客厅里跑来跑去,安静一点好不好?”“吵死了,把玩具枪给我,不要玩了!”……当小宝玩得正兴高采烈的时候,妈妈却怒气冲冲地过来喝止,不准他再玩。使得小宝既委屈又不满,觉得妈妈剥夺了他的快乐与自由。在大人的眼光里,总认为孩子到处跑跳是顽皮捣蛋,不听话的举动,所以每次看到孩子跑就要予以喝止,甚至命令孩子要安安静静地坐着不准乱动。可是孩子天性活泼好动,若强制他们不能玩耍可能影响他们身心的发展。孩子不像大人需要工作,所以游戏玩耍在生活上就成为他们的一个童心。“六·一”儿童节已经到来,这个时候,孩子们肯定吵闹着想出去玩一下,看看外面的风景,趁机能够过一把瘾。作为家长的您,是否又在些刻开始烦恼,该如何去处理孩子的游戏心理呢?还是听听专家是怎么说的吧。
“Andy, are not allowed to run around in the living room, quiet a little better?” “Noisy dead, the toy gun to me, do not play!” ... ... When Andy is playing happily, but my mother Anger came over to drink, not allowed him to play again. Making Andy both grievances and dissatisfaction, I feel his mother deprived of his happiness and freedom. In the eyes of adults, always think that running around the child is naughty, disobedient move, so every time you see the child run to be stopped, and even ordered the children to sit quietly allowed to be disturbed. However, children are naturally lively and motivated. If they are forcibly restrained from playing, they may affect their physical and mental development. Children do not need to work as adults, so the game play in life to become a childlike innocence. Children’s Day has arrived. At this time, the children must be out of noisy mood to play out and see the scenery outside, taking the opportunity to have an addiction. As a parent, are you at a time when you start to worry about how to deal with children’s game psychology? Or listen to what experts say.