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美国著名心理学家马文·马歇尔曾说过这样一句话:“当我们种下的花没有我们预期的长得那么好时,我们不会怪花,而是从自己的种植等方面寻找原因。可是,当我们的孩子犯错时,我们却总是用管教的口气责怪他们,而且夹杂着批评、辱骂。”美国著名心理学家马文·马歇尔曾说过这样一句话:“当我们种下的花没有我们预期的长得那么好时,我们不会怪花,而是从自己的种植等方面寻找原因。可是,当我们的孩子犯错时,我们却总是用管教的口气责怪他们,而且夹杂着批评、辱骂。”
Marvin Marshall, a famous psychologist in the United States, once said: “When we planted flowers that did not grow as well as we expected, we did not blame the flowers for reasons of cultivation, etc. However, when our children make mistakes, we always blame them with discipline and with a mixture of criticism and abusiveness. ”Marvin Marshall, a famous American psychologist, once said:“ When we When the flowers we planted did not grow as well as we expected, we did not blame the flowers for reasons of planting, etc. However, when our children made mistakes, we always blamed them with discipline , But also mixed with criticism, abuse. ”