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在德国,每年有20万人离异,1/3夫妻婚姻失败,在大城市该比例更高达50%。对此,夫妻关系学家提出了使夫妻关系保持和睦的黄金法则:一,积极正面的沟通必不可少。即使争吵时也应不失幽默、点到为止或者言辞和善。二,健康的怀疑胜过盲目信任。适度怀疑能够帮助一方发现另一方的态度变化,提早应对而不至于关系恶化。三,即使是有了孩子,也应留出夫妻二人单独相
In Germany, 200,000 people divorce each year, and one-third of husbands and wives fail to marry, up to 50% in big cities. In this regard, the couple relations scholars put forward to keep the relationship between husband and wife the golden rule: First, positive and positive communication is essential. Even in a quarrel, you should have a sense of humor, until the point or words of kindness. Second, the suspicion of health over blind trust. Moderate doubts can help one party find out the other party’s attitude changes and deal with it earlier without deteriorating the relationship. Third, even with children, should be left alone couple of the couple