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在近年的心理咨询中,我发现有许多孩子是在父母铺好的“红地毯”上走过来的,是在父母做好的“模子”里长大的,这些孩子的母亲多是很有能力的强者,处处扮演着“强人”的角色。可是,这些母亲培养出的恰恰又多是“低能孩子”,这种社会现象不能不发人深省。 晓丹今年23岁,天生丽质,身材苗条,只是那双显得敏感的大眼睛充满焦虑和忧郁,向人展示着她内心的不安和种种心理症结。晓丹因患心理疾病已不得不辍学,离开大学校园…… 让我们把镜头拉近,从晓丹自幼的
In recent years of counseling, I have found that many children came over on the “red carpet” paved by their parents and grew up in the “molds” made by their parents, whose mothers are very capable Strong, always playing a “strongman” role. However, these mothers are precisely the “low-energy children,” which can not but be thought-provoking. Xiaodan, 23, is born with a natural beauty and a slim body. Only the pair of sensitive big eyes are full of anxiety and melancholy, showing her inner anxiety and various psychological problems. Xiaodan suffering from mental illness have had to drop out of school, left the university campus ... ... let us narrow the lens, from Xiao Dan’s childhood