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两个人在独木桥上狭路相逢;在拥挤的人群中踩了对方的脚;在交叉路口骑自行车撞在一起;在雨天中脚下的水花无意溅到了对方身上……凡此种种,是互不相让、互相指责,拼个你死我活?还是互相礼让、道歉,来个“对不起”、“不要紧”呢?这些看似简单的问题,在实际生活中却不容易真正处理好。其缘由就在于不少人在遇到这些小事时,往往头脑发热,一种怕“吃亏”的心理占据上风,结果互不相让,互相指责,甚至“动口又动手”,等到小事酿成大祸时方悔之晚矣。
Two people in the narrow bridge on the single-plank bridge; in the crowds of people stepped on each other’s feet; bikes collide at the intersection; at the foot of the rain accidentally splashed on each other’s body ... ... All these are mutually exclusive, each other Accusation, spell the death of you live? Or polite, apologize, to an “sorry”, “does not matter”? These seemingly simple problems, but in real life is not easy to really deal with. The reason for this is that many people often have a feverish mind when they encounter these small things, and their psychological feelings of “loss” prevail. As a result, they can not give in to each other and accuse each other. They even have to “move their mouths and hands” When the calamities regret the late men.