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电影《西西里美丽的传说》中有这样一个镜头:几个正值花季的要好少年,坐在海边的巨石上,先后解开裤带,比比看谁的“家伙”更大。虽然这是影片中的场景,但绝不是凭空捏造,据我所知,初中生当中就有类似的现象发生。对刚刚进入青春期的少年来说,随着身体的发育,生理有了变化,他们逐渐有了性的意识,对自身的变化、对异性都产生了好奇和兴趣,因此,随之而来的各种表现就不能说是不正常的了。和身体的发育一样,人的思维是不会在某个阶段静止的,青少年也不例外,好奇、猎奇和标榜自己比其他同龄人更成熟的心理驱使他们中的个别人更向前冒进了一步,做出了本该在人生将来的某个时期方可做的事情,以诠释他们对爱情的理解。可做过之后,他们还会坚持他们原来对两性间感情的观点吗?以下是本刊从《藏在书包里的玫瑰》一书中摘编的一些发生在中学生中的事情,没有夸张,没有放大,没有危言耸听,只有真实,以及真实以外对现状的忧虑和对青少年理智的提醒。
The movie “Sicily’s Beautiful Legends” has such a scene: Several young people who are in the season of good will, sitting on a large rock at the seaside, have untied their belts, and are more likely to see whose “guy” is. Although this is a scene in the film, it is by no means fabricated. As far as I know, similar phenomena have occurred among junior high school students. For youngsters who have just entered adolescence, their physiology has changed with the development of their bodies. They gradually have a sense of sex and are curious and interested in their own changes and in the opposite sex. This kind of performance cannot be said to be abnormal. Like the development of the body, people’s thinking does not stop at a certain stage. Teenagers are no exception. Curiosity, curiosity, and advertising that they are more mature than other peers drive individual ones to take a step forward. , to do something that should have been done in a certain period of life in order to interpret their understanding of love. Can they still insist on their original views on the feelings between the sexes? Here are some of the incidents that occurred in the middle school students in the book “Rose in a Hugging Bag”. It is not an exaggeration or an enlargement. There is no alarmist talk, only truth, and concerns about the status quo other than reality and reminding young people of reason.