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一、我的言行应该得到别人的赞许,最好获得别人的喜爱。让每个人都喜爱自己,让所有人赞许自己的观点,就得去注意所有人对自己的态度和反应,就得每时每刻不停地修正自己,这是典型的在为别人活着,同时也是为了驾驭别人,可真是两难。二、处处小心,随时防患于未然。许多情况下,你就是整日都在提心吊胆,也无法避免将要发生的事情。处处小心会把我们弄得精疲力竭,反而失去安全感和自然的生活状态,以致危险来临时,会因为更加紧张而失去应变能力。
First, my words and deeds should be praised by others, it is best to get people’s favorite. Let everyone love yourself, let everyone praise their point of view, you have to pay attention to all the attitude and reaction to their own, we must constantly amend themselves every moment, which is typical of living for others, at the same time It is really a dilemma to control others. Second, be careful everywhere, take preventive measures at any time. In many cases, you are constantly on the alert and can not avoid what’s going to happen. Carefulness can exhaust us, but we lose our sense of security and our natural state of life so that when the danger comes, we lose our ability to cope with the increased tension.