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任性是幼儿普遍存在的问题。如果我们放任幼儿的任性,将会影响他们的人际交往,因为任性的幼儿很难与同伴友好合作、分享、协商,他们往往随心所欲,很难做出利他(如关心、谦让、助人、同情等)的行为。任性的孩子通常表现为固执、抗拒、不服从父母管教、经常跟老师对着干等。这些任性行为的养成除了幼儿本身的年龄特点外,主要是由于家人的溺爱和老师的管教不慎所造成的。任性导致人无法正确认识和判断事物,不善与人交往,不被别人接受而陷入孤独,对孩子健康成长极为不利,所以对孩子的任性除了进行教育外,更重要的是对家长的溺爱行为进行改变。同时,老师的耐心、细心培养,也是帮助孩子改掉任性习惯的重要手段!
Self-willed is a common problem for young children. If we allow young children to be self-willed, it will affect their interpersonal relationships. Because wayward children find it hard to cooperate with friends, share and negotiate. They often have no choice but to make altruisms (eg caring, humility, help, sympathy, etc.) the behavior of. Self-willed children usually show stubborn, resist, disobedient parents discipline, often with the teacher and so on. Apart from the age characteristics of young children themselves, the formation of these willful behaviors is mainly caused by the spoil of the family and the carelessness of the teachers. Self-motivated people can not correctly understand and judge things, not good with people, not being accepted by others into solitude, is extremely detrimental to the healthy growth of children, so the child’s self-willed education in addition to education, more importantly, the act of spoiling parents change. At the same time, the teacher’s patience, careful training, is also an important means to help children get rid of self-willed habits!