婚姻中的“私房钱”

• 作 者: 黄雨欣
• 出 处: 南风窗
• 发表日期: 1998年06期
• 关键词: 德国人 一个女人 夫妻关系 储蓄帐户 电话铃声 你我 中国姑娘 自动取款机 冬头 七八

(1) 表姐在德国生活数年后,就地取材嫁给了德国佬。虽然她成了德国人的妻子,但为防万一,表姐多长了心眼,就是存“私房钱”。 一个女人只身在外,举目无亲,手里有点机动钱也算多了条退路。我对表姐这一做法深表理解,并不时地尽自己所能教她耍些瞒天过海的把戏。渐渐地,她对婚姻的危机意识也或多或少地影响了我,虽然我一直认为我们原装原配且“青梅竹马”的婚

(1) cousin living in Germany for several years, the local material to get married to the German guy. Although she became a German wife, but just in case, cousin how long mind, is to save “private money.” A woman alone, unaccompanied, hands a little more money to move backwards. I have a deep understanding of the cousin’s practice, and from time to time try my best to teach her some trickery to cheat the sea. Gradually, her sense of crisis in marriage also affected me more or less, although I always think that we are original and “childhood sweetheart” marriage