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让我们先看看一位家长的来信:我女儿4岁开始学小提琴,当时她根本没有爱好,是我一厢情愿。开始几年我们过得昏天黑地,我不切实际地逼孩子练琴,经常打骂她,她胆子比较小,曾经有两次发生心理异常现象:经常感到心烦,不愿跟同学玩,晚上睡觉做恶梦,幸亏我发现得早看了心理医生……我也及时调整了一下心态,对她放松了一些,她很快就好了。半年后因为要考试,双重压力又使她常常有在梦中的感觉,总怕我不喜
Let’s take a look at a letter from a parent: My daughter started playing the violin at the age of 4, when she had no hobbies at all. It was my wishful thinking. The first few years we fainted, I unrealistically forcing children to practice the piano, often scolding her, her courage is relatively small, there have been two psychological abnormalities: often feel upset, do not want to play with classmates, sleep at night to do Nightmares, thanks to the discovery I got to see a psychiatrist early ... I also promptly adjust the state of mind, relax to her some, she soon enough. Six months later because of the exam, double pressure and often make her feel in a dream, I am always afraid that I do not like