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不少年轻夫妇有了孩子之后,由于种种原因,常常将孩子寄养在孩子的奶奶家或姥姥家,在孩子上小学高年级或上中学之后才接回到自己身边。殊不知孩子从小不在父母身边生活,对孩子的人格发展、心理健康及与父母亲的关系等方面都会产生不良影响。下面列举的临床实例充分说明了这一问题。一、孩子从小长期由老人们带养,由于缺少父爱与母爱,回到父母身边后,与父母缺少感情交流,两代人的冲突不断发生。例如:四川某一家庭,男孩的父亲是国家干部,母亲是一位医生,孩子1岁后,即将他送到姥姥、姥爷家(两人均为高级知识分子),直到12岁才回到父母身边。父母总想弥补过去对孩子情感上的不足,而孩
Many young couples with children, for various reasons, often foster their children’s grandmother or grandmother home, the children go to high school or high school before returning to their own side. As everyone knows, children do not live with their parents at an early age and have a negative impact on their child’s personality development, mental health and their relationship with parents. The clinical examples listed below fully illustrate this issue. First, children grew up with the elderly for a long time. Due to the lack of parental love and motherly love, they returned to their parents and lacked emotional exchange with their parents. The conflict between the two generations took place continuously. For example: a family in Sichuan, the boy’s father is a national cadre, the mother is a doctor, the child after the age of 1, he was sent to grandmother, grandpa (both are senior intellectuals), until the age of 12 returned to their parents . Parents always want to make up for the past emotional deficiencies in children, and children