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赞美适用于所有的孩子,但是,赞美和鼓励需要讲究一定的方法和技巧,为此,家长应该注意以下几点:表扬和赞美应客观真实,不要以偏概全。当孩子出现父母期待的行为时,就要给予孩子客观公正的表扬,如果父母对孩子的表扬不切实际,那只会让孩子感到不自在。而且,表扬孩子的好行为,不应该含糊其辞地表扬整个人。如“你这样做了就是好孩子”、“我儿子真行”……对于小孩子来说,他们分不清行为与整个人的关系。如果家长表扬孩
Praise applies to all children, however, praise and encouragement need to pay attention to certain methods and techniques, for which parents should pay attention to the following points: Praise and praise should be objective and true, not overgeneral. When the child appears parents expected behavior, it is necessary to give the child an objective and fair recognition, if parents praised the child unrealistic, it will only make the child feel uncomfortable. Moreover, praise children’s good behavior, should not vaguely praise the whole person. Such as “You are doing is a good boy ”, “My son is true ” ... ... for children, they can not tell the relationship between behavior and the whole person. If parents praise children