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编辑同志:有客人来访,最兴奋的是孩子。他们通常表现得比平时活泼、好动、爱说话,并不断地在成人谈话中打岔。父母应采取什么对策避免孩子的干扰呢?河南闻珊闻珊同志:如果时间允许,父母可以事先告诉孩子,家中将有客人来访,并将客人的姓名、和父母的关系、来访的目的简单介绍一下。让孩子有个心理准备,以免孩子问这问那,影响父母和客人的交谈。来访客人通常有两种,一是来探望全家人的轻松愉快的造访,二是有正事商谈的来访。两种情况不同,处理的方式自然不一样。若客人是为探望全家人而来,孩子当然可以参与其间,和客人谈话、玩耍。若客人有事商谈,最好先让孩子和客人交谈几句,满足他的好奇心后,再安排他自己去玩。比如,可以将孩子喜爱的玩具、图书、积木等拿出来让他玩,并告诉他:“阿姨来找妈妈谈事情,你在这儿搭房子、看书,等会儿我看你搭的房子漂亮不漂亮(或听你讲讲书上的故事)!”等孩子玩了一段时间快要耐不住时,再和他说说话,抱抱他,问:“你搭的是什么?你看的是什么
Editorial comrades: There are guests to visit, the most excited children. They usually show more lively, more active, more talkative than usual, and continue to interrupt the adult conversation. What measures should parents take to prevent their children from interfering with it? Henan Wen Shan Wen Shan: If time permits, parents can tell their children in advance that there will be guests visiting the house and a brief introduction of the guests’ names, their relations with parents, and the purpose of visiting a bit. Let the child have a mental preparation, so as not to ask the child to ask that affect the conversation between parents and guests. Visitors usually have two kinds, one is to visit the family relaxed and pleasant visit, and the second is a matter of fact to discuss the visit. The two situations are different, the way to deal with naturally different. If the guests come to visit the whole family, the children can participate in the course, talk and play with the guests. If the guests have something to discuss, it is best to let the children and guests to talk a few words to meet his curiosity, and then arrange for himself to play. For example, you can bring your favorite toys, books, bricks, etc. to let him play and told him: ”Aunt came to talk about things about mom, you are here to take a house, read a book, I’ll see you take a beautiful house Not beautiful (or listen to your story on the story)! “When the child is playing for some time to endure, then talk to him, hug him and ask: ” What is your take? What is it?