当小组长算不算成功?

• 作 者: 王晓春
• 出 处: 父母必读
• 发表日期: 2000年03期
• 关键词: 教育角度 失败感 分层测试 升学考试 主要倾向

小草好不容易得了100分,马上打电话给妈妈。妈妈接电话的时候正在忙着什么事情,没反应过来。没及时地表示高兴,没和他分享快乐。孩子非常失望,转而打电话给爸爸。爸爸表示了祝贺。当他妈妈明白过来,再向小草道贺时,小草已经不买账了。小草妈妈问:“这么点成绩,也值得我赶快祝贺吗?” 从教育角度说,成绩大小并没有统一的标准,应该根据孩子的具体情况来判断。这个100分,对于小草来说,就是大成绩,就是成功,家长没有及时表示祝贺,是一种疏忽。

The grass finally got 100 points, immediately call the mother. When Mom answered the phone is busy with what happened, did not react. Did not promptly happy, did not share happiness with him. The child is very disappointed, instead call my father. Dad expressed his congratulation. When his mother came to understand, and then congratulated the grass, the grass has not bought it. Grass mother asked: “This little result, it is worth I quickly congratulate it?” From the education point of view, there is no uniform size of the standard, should be based on the child’s specific circumstances to judge. The 100 points for the grass, it is a big achievement, is the success, parents did not congratulate in time, is a negligence.