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人性中最本质的需求就是渴望得到赏识、尊重、理解和爱。它能极大地激发学生的自信,尤其是在学习、生活等方面表现不好的学生,更希望得到老师的表扬。众所周知,抱怨只能使坏孩子越来越坏。在教育过程中不要只注重孩子的弱点和短处,小题大做,无限夸张会使孩子自暴自弃,在“我是坏孩子”中意念沉沦,要充分发挥赏识教育的魅力,注重孩子在“我是好孩子”的心态中觉醒。美国心理学家詹姆斯提出:人性最深刻的原则
The most essential requirement of human nature is the desire to be appreciated, respected, understood and loved. It can greatly stimulate students’ self-confidence, especially students who do not perform well in study and life. They also want to be praised by teachers. It is well known that complaining can only make bad children worse and worse. In the process of education, we should not only pay attention to the weaknesses and shortcomings of the children. Doing extraordinarily serious exaggerations will make the children give up themselves. In the “I am a bad boy,” the idea of sinking, to give full play to the charm of appreciation education, pay attention to children in the "I am Good boy awakened. American psychologist James put forward: the most profound human principle