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朋友也好,同事也好,大家层次不同,是很难沟通的。你可以偶尔降低自己的层次去迁就他,但常常要降低层次,那倒不如不要交这个朋友。你说的,他不明白;你在思考的事情,他从没思考过;你说东,他以为你说西,你想他做到一百分,他竭尽所能,只可以做到五十五分。这有什么办法呢?唯一的办法就是分道扬镳。找一个层次相同的朋友并不容易,所以大部分人都是寂寞的。找一个层次相同的伴侣,那就更困难了。大家层次相同,才可以一起进步,他明白你在做什么,你也明白他在做什么。
Ye Hao friends, colleagues Ye Hao, everyone at different levels, it is difficult to communicate. You can occasionally lower your level to accommodate him, but often to lower the level, it might as well not to pay this friend. He did not understand what you said, he never thought about it when you were thinking about it. When you said that he thought you said west, you wanted him to do a hundredth, and he did his best to do only fifty Five points. Is there any way to do this? The only way is to go our separate ways. It is not easy to find a friend of the same level, so most people are lonely. It’s even harder to find a partner of the same level. He can understand that what you are doing and you understand what he is doing.