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有个问题总在我脑中翻滚:人们常常愿意回忆。有历史的回顾,有经验的总结,有爱情的甜美,也有沉重的反思……这些回忆是有益的。也有些回忆,如青春不再,亲人逝去,失恋的痛苦,则常常让人十分伤感。还有些人愿意怀旧,总觉得逝去的才值得珍惜。这些都是人之常情,无可非议,但是作为老年人,沉湎过去是不利于身心健康的。我到40岁时,曾想30岁多好;到50岁时,又想40岁多好,依此类推。可是,我在30岁、40岁时,却没感觉到好在何处。而这“好”的感受却总是在回忆中获得。
There is a problem always rolling in my mind: people are often willing to memories. There are historical reviews, experienced summaries, the sweetness of love, and heavy reflection ... These memories are helpful. Some memories, such as youth no longer, loved ones passing away, the pain of lovelorn, it is often very sad. Others are willing to nostalgia, always felt it worth cherishing. These are all human feelings and can not be denounced. However, as an elderly person, indulging in the past is not conducive to mental and physical health. When I was 40, I thought I was over 30 years old. When I was 50, I wanted to be over 40 years old, and so on. However, I was 30 years old, 40 years old, but did not feel good where. And this “good ” feeling is always obtained in memory.