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嫉妒是指对在才能、品质、名誉、地位或境遇等方面比自己好的人心怀怨恨的一种不健康的心理情感。持有这种心理状态的人,怨恨别人的成就和成功,甚至有破坏性的情绪,是“平庸的情调对卓越才能的反感”,是对别人才能的一种烦恼。嫉妒是在利己主义思想支配下以及与之相联系的名利和虚荣的基础上产生的。自尊与名誉意识的偏差是产生嫉妒心理的温床。被嫉妒者一般是在年龄、职业、能力等方面与自己相近的人,甚至还不如自己。一旦对方在各方面优于自己,对这种位置变化就会缺乏正确认识,内心就会产生一种痛苦刺激从而造成情绪上的抵触和对立,把这种不良的情绪发泄到对方身上,从而产生一种愉快的情绪体验。
Jealousy refers to an unhealthy psychological feeling of resentment over someone who is good at talent, quality, reputation, status, or circumstances. Holders of this state of mind, resentment for the achievements and successes of others, and even destructive sentiments, are “the mediocre moods of the dislike of superior talent” and an upset to others. Jealousy arose on the basis of fame and vanity associated with egoism and its association. Deviation of self-esteem and reputation awareness is a hotbed of jealousy. People who are envious are generally similar to themselves in terms of age, occupation and ability, or even worse than themselves. Once the other party is superior to itself in all aspects, this position change will lack a correct understanding of the heart will have a painful stimulus resulting in emotional conflict and antagonism, the bad mood to vent each other, resulting A pleasant emotional experience.