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看到同事一脸焦虑和痛苦的神情,问起缘由,她说:“我已经很清楚我多年的痛苦生活,是因为我没有办法原谅我母亲在我小时候的所作所为。她在我出生56天的时候,抛下了我和父亲移情别恋。现在我作为一个成年人,已为人母,周围的邻居和我父亲都劝我试着原谅母亲,因为母亲身患绝症,但是我真的做不到。最令我难过和震惊的是,我连自己的母亲都不能原谅这一事实,证明我和当年的她几乎同样无情。”这件事令人深思:宽恕,既是对别人的谅解,也是对自己的解脱;既是平静生活应有的态度,也是人们保持身心健康的必然要求。
When I saw my colleague’s expression of anxiety and anguish, and asking her reasons, she said: “I have been very aware of my painful years of life because I can not forgive my mother for what I did when I was young. I lost my father and father in 56 days and now I am an adult, a mother, my neighbors and my father have advised me to try and forgive my mother because my mother is terminally ill, but I really Can not do.The most sad and shocking to me is that even my own mother can not forgive this fact and prove that I and her year she is almost equally ruthless. ”This is a thought-provoking: forgiveness, both for others Understanding, but also to their own liberation; not only the attitude of calm life, but also the inevitable requirement of people to maintain physical and mental health.