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有人曾对被父母喜欢和不被父母喜欢的儿童在行为上、性格上进行了比较,结果表明,在行为上,前者大都表现出符合社会要求的理想行为;而后者则表现出异常行为,如故意引入注意、不稳重以及反社会的错误倾向等。在性格上,前者情绪稳定,具有社会性、稳重、善思考、有兴趣;而后者则不稳定、浮躁、反抗社会、冷漠、没有爱心。前者待人亲切,对未来充满信心,有理想,能比较实际地评价自己,很少有不安全感和自卑感;后者与此相反。这个调查结果说明,父母对于子女是否热爱,造成了他们的身心向两个截然不同的方向发展,对他们以后的人格建立起着决定
Some people have been compared to children who are loved by their parents and are not liked by their parents in terms of behavior and character. The results show that most of them behaved in an ideal way that meets social requirements, while the latter showed unusual behaviors such as Intentional introduction of attention, instability and antisocial wrongdoings. In character, the former is emotionally stable, socially, steadily, thinking and interested. The latter is unstable, impetuous, socially resistant, indifferent and has no love. The former treat people kindly, confident of the future, idealistic, able to evaluate themselves more effectively, with little sense of insecurity and inferiority; the latter is the opposite. The findings of this survey show that parents are passionate about their children, resulting in their physical and mental development in two completely different directions, which determine their future personality