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很喜欢听老一辈讲他们那个年代的婚姻。多数人和我的父母一样,一辈子下来,恐怕就只有枕边的这个人。我的父亲和母亲经媒人撮合,见了不到五次面,就结了婚。从陌生人到夫妻,磕磕碰碰自然少不了。可每次碰到什么事儿,两人从未有过分开的念头。有问题,就直面解决,而越到后头,问题越少,直至相伴到老。那年头的人重感情,一旦结了婚,总觉得就是一辈子的事儿。就好像一件衣服,有了破洞,第一个念头不是扔掉买新的,而是缝一下,把洞补上,继续穿。就这样,缝缝补补几十年,补出了婚姻里的
I really like to hear the older generation talk about their marriage of that era. Like most of my parents, most people will only have this pillow for a lifetime. My father and mother were matched by the matchmaker, and when they met less than five times, they got married. From strangers to couples, bumps naturally and ultimately. What can happen to each time, the two never thought too far apart. If there are any problems, we will deal with the problems directly. If we go further, the fewer the problems, the more we will be accompanied by the old ones. That year, people love, once married, always feel that it is a lifetime thing. Like a dress, with a hole, the first idea is not to throw away to buy new, but to sew it, the hole make up, continue to wear. In this way, stitching make up for decades, make up the marriage