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无论是青年夫妻,或是中老年夫妇,如何使婚姻美满、白头偕老,必须注意以下十个方面的问题: 一忌动辄提离婚 夫妻之间不时发生争执,乃是自古已然的事;发生磨擦时,切忌动辄提离婚,双方要努力学会克制自己,特别是在对方激怒时,要格外注意克制。唯独这样,才能使矛盾的火星及时泯灭。 二忌避免旧事重提 不揭对方过去的疮疤,特别是本人渴盼忘记的一些不愉快的回忆,尤应绝对避免旧事重提。 三忌率性而行 有一些夫妻具有浓厚的率性而行的倾向,不管孩子是否在场,脾气一发作就大吵大闹,久而久之,夫妻感情就会濒临崩溃。更严重的是子女也会看轻父母,从而使融为一体的家庭发生解体。
Whether young couples or middle-aged couples, how to make a happy marriage and grow old together, we must pay attention to the following ten issues: First, it is always a matter of dispute that a divorce between husband and wife occurs from time to time. When friction occurs, Avoid mentioning divorce frequently, both sides must try hard to learn to restrain oneself, especially in each other’s anger, should pay extra attention to restraint. Only in this way can the contradictory Mars be extinguished in time. Second, to avoid refraining from the old affair not to expose each other’s past scars, especially those I want to forget some of the unpleasant memories, in particular, should absolutely avoid the old issue. Three bogey rate behavior Some couples have a strong tendency to be straightforward, regardless of the presence of children, temper a quarrel, in the course of time, the couple’s feelings will be on the verge of collapse. What is even more serious is that children will also look down on their parents, thus disintegrating the integrated family.