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“在家里,你怕妈妈还是爸爸啊?”这样的问题,要是以前让孩子来回答,可能答案大同小异:怕爸爸。的确,在大家的印象中,父亲往往被认定为家庭权威代表,孩子觉得难以亲近。尤其在管教子女方面,父亲扮演指挥官和仲裁人的角色,是唱白脸的。而母亲主要采取理解或合作的方式,对子女提供照顾,帮助克服生活上的困难,是唱红脸的。可如今,对这个问题,不少孩子的回答已经不一样了。与昔日威严高大、令人惧怕的形象相比,孩子眼里的爸爸正变得越来越和蔼可亲,而妈妈的形象却逐渐变得硬朗起来,甚至成了家里的权威人物。很多小孩子开始对妈妈产生了敬畏,这就是现在人们常常挂在嘴边的“严母慈父”。
“At home, are you afraid of mother or father ah?” Such a problem, if the child to answer before, the answer may be more or less the same: afraid of my father. Indeed, in everybody’s impression, the father is often identified as the authoritative representative of the family, children feel difficult to get close. Especially in disciplining children, his father plays the role of commander and arbitrator, singing white faces. The mother, who mainly adopts the way of comprehension or cooperation, takes care of her children and helps to overcome difficulties in life. She is singing a red face. But nowadays, many children have different answers to this question. Compared with the dignified and frightening images of the past, the dad in the eyes of the children is getting more and more amiable, while the image of the mother gradually becomes tough and even becomes the authoritative figure in the family. Many children began to have awe of their mothers, and this is the “mother and father” that people often talk about now.