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日本心理学家镰田胜在《自我开发的100种法则》里说:“凡是有进取心的人,都具有强烈的竞争意识和追求更高目标的意志。他们总是与强于自己的对手竞争,以便不断地努力来赶上和超过对方。”谁都清楚,自然界是在“物竞天择”、“优胜劣败”中进化的。竞争是万物发展的驱动机制,也是人类社会不断进步的动力。随着社会的发展,人类互相竞争的范围、频率、深度、强度正朝着上扬的势态迅速上升。发达地区科技和经济的剧烈竞争是人所共知的。改革开放给我国各个领域注入了强烈的竞争活力。在这种不可抗拒的潮流面前,对竞争望而生畏的人,必然头晕目眩,不知所措。向跨世纪的下一代倾注竞争意识已成为当代父母的急切使命。那种以安份守己,腼腆斯文为好孩子的传统观念正在被大方活泼,不甘示弱,积极参与,好胜斗强的标尺所取代。性格外向的孩子正越来越受人青睐。希望自己的孩子具有强烈的竞争意识的家长是有远见、有胆识的,他们的观念符合时代潮流。很明显,
Japanese psychologist Kamada wins the “100 Rules for Self-Development” and says: “Everyone who has an enterprising spirit has a strong sense of competition and a will to pursue higher goals. They are always better than themselves Opponent competition in order to constantly strive to catch up and surpass each other. ”“ Everyone knows that nature is in ”natural selection “, ”superior inferior " evolution. Competition is the driving force for the development of all things and the driving force for the continuous progress of human society. With the development of society, the scope, frequency, depth and strength of human competition are rising rapidly. The fierce competition in science and technology and economy in the developed regions is well known. Reform and opening up have injected a strong competitive vitality into all fields in our country. In the face of such an irresistible trend, people who are dauntingly competitive must be dizzy and overwhelmed. The pouring of a sense of competition toward the next generation of the new century has become an urgent mission of contemporary parents. The traditional notion of being self-serving and self-serving and being a good boy is being replaced by a rule that is generous, unwilling to be impaired, active, and victorious. Outgoing children are increasingly favored. Parents who want their children to have a strong sense of competition are far-sighted and courageous, and their concepts are in keeping with the trend of the times. It is clear,