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一般而言,孩子最好在三岁左右与父母分床睡眠,因为孩子3岁左右时就有了最初的性别意识,如果长时间与父母同床睡,有可能加剧孩子的恋母或恋父情结。专家指出,大多数和父母睡惯了的孩子一开始分床睡都很不情愿,主要存在恐惧、依恋、孤独三种心理因素,因此执行起来会有不同程度的困难。经历儿子今年六岁,从小与我同床睡,分床问题因个人的不舍与孩子的依赖等各种困难断断续续,没有最终解决。现在孩子马上面临上小学,觉得必须分床睡了,非常正式
In general, children are best at the age of three and their parents to sleep in bed, because the children about 3 years old when they had the initial gender awareness, if prolonged sleep with their parents bed, may exacerbate the child’s Oedipus or love father Complex. Experts point out that most of the children who are used to sleeping with their parents are reluctant to start bed-sharing at the outset. There are mainly three psychological factors: fear, attachment and solitude. Therefore, they will have varying degrees of difficulty in their implementation. Experience son six years old this year, I was asleep with my bed, the problem of sub-bed due to personal displeasure and dependence on children and other difficulties intermittent, there is no final solution. Right now, the children are confronted with elementary school and feel that they must sleep in separate beds. It is very formal