“替蝶破茧”的启示

• 作 者: 章剑和
• 机 构: 深圳市教学研究室 教育心理硕士心理咨询研究员
• 出 处: 辅导员
• 发表日期: 2002年12期
• 关键词: 就这样 家庭教育 内心感受 未知世界 令人 独立生活能力 自立意识 考试分数 仁重 点头称是

记得有这么一个故事,有人看见一只幼蝶在茧中挣扎了很久出不来,出于好心,便用剪刀小心翼翼地剪开茧壳,让这只幼蝶轻松地爬了出来。然而不大一会,这只幼蝶竟然死掉了。原来,幼蝶在茧中挣扎是在锻炼自己,让身体更加结实,让翅膀更加有力,从而使自己从茧中出来后能够生存和飞翔。可见,“替蝶破茧”,恰恰害死了这只本可翩翩起舞的蝴蝶。

I remember having such a story, someone saw a young butterfly struggling in the cocoon for a long time to get out, out of good intentions, they carefully cut the cocoon shell with scissors, so that the baby butterfly easily climbed out. However, in a little while, this young butterfly died. It turned out that the butterflies in the cocoon struggling to exercise their own, so that the body more solid, so that the wings are more powerful, so that they come out from the cocoon to survive and fly. Can be seen, “for the butterfly break cocoon,” just killed the only butterfly that can dance.