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性生活是一个人的全面心理素质的集中体现。许多个性方面的缺陷,不仅跟目前的配偶过不好性生活,而且恐怕跟任何人都无法协调性生活。对于这样的人来说,最要紧的并不是抱怨对方或者盲目地学习性技巧,而是首先去努力完善自己的个性。最常见的情况是,有些人从小娇生惯养,一直以自己为中心,因此缺乏理解别人的能力,更不懂人生在世,应该尽量体谅别人的弱点和缺点,应该是“得饶人处且饶人”。这样的人往往会在性生活里苛求对方,一旦发生矛盾,就只会残酷斗争,不会主动让步和妥协,而且也很难在短时期内学会。由于以自我为中心的独生子女越来越多,这种情况在不远的将来可能会成为一个普遍的严重问题。
Sexual life is a concentrated expression of a person’s overall psychological quality. Many personality flaws, not only with the current spouse bad sex life, but I am afraid that any one can not coordinate sexual life. For such people, the most important thing is not to complain about each other or blindly learn sexual skills, but first to work hard to improve their own personality. The most common situation is that some people are spoiled by childhood and always take themselves as the center. Therefore, they lack the ability to understand others and do not know how to be alive. They should try their best to understand the weaknesses and weaknesses of others and should be “forgiven and forgiven ”. Such people tend to be demanding each other in their sexual life. Once a conflict has arisen, they will only be cruelly struggled, will not voluntarily make concessions and compromises, and will hardly learn in a short period of time. As more and more single-child children are self-centered, this situation may become a widespread serious problem in the near future.