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我的孩子13岁了。我生长在农村,深知物质的匮乏容易给人带来心理上的压抑。所以,在城市工作后,我辛苦打拼很多年,终于可以给孩子提供好的生活,给孩子上各种课外补习班,孩子吃的用的也都尽量高档。可是,我发现孩子并没有想象的那么优秀,相反,富裕的生活让他养成了不少坏毛病,对于我讲的以往的艰苦生活也嗤之以鼻。请问,我该怎么办?洪明:您有一个错误观念和一个自相矛盾的做法。您内心里不知道什么是真正的自信,如何才能有真正的自信。您或许不知道,孩子
My child is 13 years old. I grew up in rural areas, knowing that lack of material easily brought psychological depression. Therefore, after working in the city, I worked hard for many years and can finally provide my children with a good life. I can give my children various kinds of extra-curricular classes and the children eat as much as I can. However, I noticed that the children did not think so well. On the contrary, the rich life made him develop a lot of bad habits and scoffed at the hard life I had before. Excuse me, what should I do? Hong Ming: You have a wrong idea and a paradoxical approach. You do not know what is real self-confidence, how to have a real self-confidence. You may not know, kid