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很多爱,到极致时,令人感觉没有出路。婚姻给了爱一个出口,可结了婚,爱情又如何?有时,就像清晨叶上的露珠,见到了阳光,反而消散了。眼看着曾精心呵护的爱,在婚姻的围城中却日渐苍白。时光是最无情的巫婆,杀死了曾经的白马王子。很多年来,我们看惯了一种维持婚姻的模式,矛盾——冲突——第三方调解——双方妥协,宁可看着爱情奄奄一息,也抱着微弱的幻想不肯撒手婚姻。我们太习惯了维持,从来没想过婚姻也可以通过再创造获得新生。从新鲜到不新鲜,婚
A lot of love, to the extreme, it feels no way out. Marriage gives love to an exit, can get married, love and how? Sometimes, like the morning dew on the leaves, saw the sun, but dissipated. Seeing the loving care of love, has become increasingly pale in the siege of marriage. Time is the most ruthless witch, killed Prince Charming. For years, we have been accustomed to a model of marriage, conflict - conflict - third-party mediation - compromise between the two sides, preferring to watch love dying and refusing to let go of marriage with a faint fantasy. We are so accustomed to sustaining that we never imagined that marriage can be renewed through new life. From fresh to not fresh, married