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婚姻学家说,婚姻是一种社会关系。的确,婚姻往往体现了特定社会里的人与人、人与社会、人与自然的一种关系,它与经济基础、社会意识形态密不可分,并随着社会发展而发展。然而,在婚姻的这种特定关系中,有些“规则”却又是永恒不变的。认识它并不难,而承认它却需要勇气。诩是一位接受过高等教育的人,留美硕士,自诩为现代派,颇独立自信。或许由于接受了过多的西方文化,她对我国传统的婚姻不屑一顾,并谓之为丧失自主的婚姻。可就是这位自以为找到了自主婚姻的诩,却在婚后不久与丈夫产生了较大的摩擦,以至于最终对自己的婚姻产生了疑惑。
Marriage scholars say that marriage is a social relationship. Indeed, marriage often embodies a relationship among people, people and society, man and nature in a given society. It is closely linked with economic foundation and social ideology, and develops along with social development. However, in this particular relationship of marriage, some “rules” are again immutable. It is not difficult to recognize it, but it takes courage to admit it.诩 is a highly educated person, a master in the United States, self-proclaimed modernist, quite independent and confident. She may have dismissed the traditional marriage in our country as a result of accepting too much of Western culture and called her a lost marriage. But this is the self-righteous find the marriage of their own, but soon after marriage with her husband had a greater friction, so that eventually their doubts about marriage.