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每到暑假,小学、初中毕业生的父母都希望自己的子女能进最好的中学。不必说大款家长们自由潇洒地穿梭出入于各名牌中学,就是一些经济并不宽裕的家长们也是疲于奔命,为的是筹措那笔少则一两万多则五六万的昂贵学费。在他们看来,子女一旦进入名牌中学,就等于有一只脚已跨进了大学的门槛,日后自然成龙成凤,出人头地。但我以为盲目择校之风实不可长,其原因主要有两条。其一,择校不利于培养孩子乐观、自信的心理品质。孩子进人名牌中学后,或者由于父母基因的影响,或者由于学业基础太差,或者由于能力潜质暂时得不到发挥,诸多因素都有可能使他们跟不上教师的授课进度。一旦学习受挫,孩子就会背上沉重的心理包袱:想想父母
Every summer, the parents of elementary and middle school graduates want their children to enter the best secondary schools. Needless to say, wealthy parents shuttle freely and freely among famous brand secondary schools. Some parents who are not well-off are also exhausted. In order to raise the cost of paying tuition fees of as little as $ 120,000 to $ 50,000. In their view, once a child enters a brand-name middle school, it means that one foot has entered the threshold of the university and will become a natural leader in the future. However, I think that there is a long way to go about choosing schools blindly for two reasons. First, school choice is not conducive to cultivating children’s optimistic and confident psychological quality. When children enter a brand-name middle school, either due to the influence of their parents’ genes, or due to poor academic foundation, or due to the temporary lack of capacity potential, many factors may make them unable to keep up with the teacher’s teaching progress. Once learning frustrates, the child will carry a heavy psychological burden: think of parents