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作为家长,我们总希望为孩子营造良好甚至完美的成长环境,替孩子思考,想孩子所未曾想,穷其所有,不惜代价。但这样培养出的孩子就如家长所愿吗?事实证明好像并不这样。听说某地楼房着火,一个住在二楼的孩子请示家长,家长让他不要乱跑,等候消防员叔叔救援,结果这个原本可以轻易逃出的小孩,葬身火海。作为家长,大多时候,我们都会低估小孩的思考和行动能力。从某个角度,过于监护,也会削弱孩子的思考判断
As a parent, we always hope for the children to create a good even perfect environment for children to think, think the child never thought, poor all, at any cost. But does the child so cultivated as parents wish? It turns out not to be. I heard a building on fire, a child living on the second floor to consult parents, parents let him not run around, waiting for the firefighter uncle rescue, the result can easily escape the child, died in a sea of fire. As parents, most of the time, we will underestimate children’s thinking and mobility. From a certain point of view, too much care, will also weaken the child’s thinking and judgment