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“双差生”是指思想品德差、学习成绩差的学生.我们只有研究和掌握“双差生”的心理特点及其表现,深入分析其产生的原因,才有可能找到行之有效的教育方法.一、“双差生”的心理特点及其表现任何一种道德品质都包括一定的道德认识、道德情感、道德意志和道德行为四种基本成分,品德不良的中学生,其心理特点也一定会在知、情、意、行四个方面表现出来.(一)疑惧心理与对立情绪“双差生”由于品德不良和学习成绩低下,经常遭到家长的责备打骂、老师的批评训斥、同学和邻居的讽刺挖苦,自尊心受到严重的损伤.由此他们讨厌家长和老师,希望他们不要管他.可是家长和老师又恨铁不成钢,往往管得过严、过急,方法过于生硬,所以“双差生”与家长、老师之间容易产生对立情绪.例如.有的学生顶撞老师说:“我一不偷二不抢,你拿我怎么样?”家长骂他他不理,打他他就跑,甚至以死来威吓父母.“双差生”做坏事以后,往往感到心虚,怕家长、怕老师,见到这些人往往采取疏远、回避、警惕的态度:如果触犯他们,还会采取粗暴无礼的行动.他们异常敏感,有时老师一个眼神或动作.人们无意中说的一句话都会引起他们强烈的冲动或忌恨.他们错误地认为家长的教育是嫌弃他们,老师的教育是有意找麻烦,同学的帮助是打击报复.
“Double difference students” refers to students with poor moral character and poor academic performance.Only by studying and mastering the psychological characteristics and performance of “double poor students”, we can find out the effective methods of education by deeply analyzing the causes of the problems. First, the “double poor students,” the psychological characteristics and the performance of any kind of moral quality includes a certain amount of moral understanding, moral emotion, moral will and moral behavior of the four basic components, poor moral character of middle school students, their psychological characteristics will certainly know (1) Doubtful Mentality and Opposition Emotions Due to poor moral quality and low academic performance, “double poor students” are often beaten and blamed by their parents for reproaching and reprimand by their teachers and their neighbors Sarcastic sarcasm, self-esteem severely damaged .So they hate parents and teachers, I hope they do not control him .But parents and teachers hate iron steel, often too strict, too hasty, the method is too hard, so “double poor students For example, some students hit the teacher and said: ”I will not steal two do not grab, how do you take me?“ The parents scold him Ignore, hit him to run, or even threatened to death parents. ”Double poor students" do bad things, often feel guilty, afraid of parents, afraid of teachers, see these people often take the attitude of alienation, avoidance, vigilance: They also take rude and rude actions, they are unusually sensitive, and sometimes the teacher looks or moves with imprecision or jealousy when people inadvertently say that they mistakenly believe that parental education dislikes them, The teacher’s education is interested in finding trouble, the help of classmates is to retaliate.